Pete Vanderpool presents

My Educated Guess

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  • 11/18/2020 4:29 PM | Pete Vanderpool (Administrator)

    My guess is that you think about it more often than you might guess. When you find yourself in strange circumstances, you wonder what you might do to help or how you might fit into some new situation. You naturally gut-check your uniqueness, looking for help making a quick response. You decide to try it or duck it. Later, you may revisit the facts and change your mind, but all the while, you challenge your uniqueness for more help.

    There’s power in your stories, your experiences. Many times, a person who shares their problem in great detail already knows the answer. Even if you reply with an appropriate solution for them, you may not get their agreement because they are enjoying telling the story in great detail over and over again.

    I’m Pete Vanderpool and that’s An Educated Guess!

  • 11/11/2020 5:33 PM | Pete Vanderpool (Administrator)

    I received a thank-you note in the mail yesterday. It was from my pastor regarding a silly little gift we had given her which arrived at an opportune time and provided way more positive emotion than we could ever have imagined.

    An earlier one was from a friend commenting positively on the lessons I had brought to class. It called to mind yet another one I received many years ago from a parent regarding how happy she was with the lessons her son had received while in my Sunday School class of senior high students. She was moved by the results she saw in him.

    The point to all this is how much these notes mean to me. It was an example of the “pay” one receives very few times over a lifetime. Both were evidence of work well done, making me proud, not in a haughty way, but from a sense of success in the labor of love I had given freely without expectation of reward.

    You always have the opportunity to use the power of a postage stamp to brighten up someone’s life, to what extent you may never know. That’s not why we do it.

    When was the last time you mailed a personal note?

    I'm Pete Vanderpool and that's An Educated Guess.

  • 06/25/2020 12:06 PM | Pete Vanderpool (Administrator)

    I hate to go shopping. I used to like to go shopping, especially book stores, hardware stores, old fashioned general stores, and grocery stores.  But now I dread the word “shopping”.

    Why? Because shopping makes me mad. In this pandemic, we’ve been asked to wear masks. I was in a local hardware store last week, and I was the only customer in the busy store wearing a mask. My wearing a mask protects you more than it protects me.

    My wife asked a young lady in line behind her at the grocery store why she wasn’t wearing one. She replied that she didn’t like them and wasn’t going to wear one, which only tells me she doesn’t care about anyone but herself. I watched a grandpa holding hands with his grandson of probably four, both entering Lowe’s without masks. Young people are seldom seen wearing them, and then they suddenly contract the COVID-19 and say, “I guess I should have worn a mask”. How many people have they shared the disease with, especially elderly family members?

    My friends in healthcare, including doctors and nurses, all comment on the independent stand of not wearing a mask. Wearing one is the simplest thing a person can do to protect themselves and their families. My favorite line of the day about non-mask wearers is from an emergency room nurse, “You better hope I never see you in the ER!”

    Maybe this will all go away and I will look forward to shopping again, but in the meantime, I guess I’ll have to learn to live with the current normal. I’ll look forward to seeing you smile behind your mask. I can tell, you know. Your eyes sparkle and you squint more!

  • 06/19/2020 3:47 PM | Pete Vanderpool (Administrator)

    Picture an airplane taking off with one of those smoke bombs attached to its wing. The result will be a smooth curve going from the starting point on the ground upward slowly until the bomb runs out of smoke. Life’s curve is generally expected to look like that. You start at birth, learn a lot of things, graduate, get a job, get married, have a family, get active in the community or a church. Eventually you retire and enjoy the grandkids. It’s expected to be a gently rising curve from birth to death.
    But my friend David says he never learned a thing from the gentle upward sweep of life’s curve. He learned when the curve suddenly started straight downward. Some people think of that as failure. Some look at it as a learning experience. Thomas Edison was once asked about his many failures while trying to create a light bulb. His reply was that he didn’t fail. He learned a thousand ways not to make a light bulb.
    So the curve more closely resembles a saw blade. I think of it as “David’s Curve”. The down-drops are the experiences which equip us to help others in similar circumstances. They are times of learning, of testing, of making us into wiser human beings. The way to benefit from those times is to look for the lesson hidden in the experience and not to dwell on the chaos of the moment. For those who insist upon living those trying moments for a lifetime thereafter, life becomes a tragedy. They keep adding the down-drops as if a sum total of them were important. The lessons are. The trauma is not.
    Once a person realizes that life is going along without them and that they would be better served to live where life is at this moment, the better off they will be. In fact, they might even realize that they are equipped by their experiences to bless others. Helping others is a sure cure for what ails you.
    Now that’s what life should look like!

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